Sometimes, they’re
which have long relationship or they couple is so annoying, can make them feel bored
with their couple, and make them have a negative thinking. Yeah, they think to
do cheating. But, trust me that it isn’t a good way to solve your boredom.
Think once again about it and calculate the disadvantages of cheating itself,
for example :
- Your emission will be double. One for your real couple and one left for your cheating couple.
- If your real couple know about your cheating, your relationship that have been built for a long time maybe will be collapse whereas our cheating couple not necessarily better than your real couple. Remember ! neighbour’s grass is always look more green than your grass !
- You should start from the beginning again. You should curse again and finally you should produce much money
- Doing something negative always make you feel afraid everywhere, everytime so when you’re cheating, you’ll always feel worry and afraid, how if your real couple know abour your cheating? And your relationship won’t be nice ‘cause you always do secret date
Having a couple
is difficult, what about if we have more than a couple? Have you ever thought
like that? Do you know that most of boys or girls are don’t like to be cheated?
So please avoid to do cheating before it will be our habit ‘till we’ve already
married. Love isn’t for divided ‘cause many girls don’t want to be cheated. Not
only girls but also boys. If we find someone who say that she or he is
self-sacrifice to be cheated by her or his couple, I believe that inside of her
or his heart isn’t sincere. I have some methods to avoid cheating, for example :
- Strong Intentions
From the
beginning, decided inside of your heart that you won’t cheating when you’re
still have a relationship. Think that you only have a couple, no more or maybe
think that "ONE ISN’T ENDS SO WHY MORE?"
- Always Remember Your Couple
To make you
forget about cheating, you can always remember your couple’s face. There are
many things that you can do to do that, for example you tide your couple photo
or photo of your couple and you in a enable place like in the wallpaper of your
mobile phone, laptop or maybe you want to tide on your bedroom’s wall.
- Forthcoming With Your Couple
It’s the most
important point if you want to avoid cheating. You should accustom to be
forthcoming each other with your couple. Don’t be shy to tell everything inside
of your mind and your feeling. Out all of your
complaint about your couple or maybe about your relationship while it’s good or
bad ‘cause it just felt by yourself. If you just keep silent and don’t tell your
couple about your feeling, how can they know that you have some complaint to
them? So, tell everything to your couple if it need to tell. Therefore, you can
correct yourself each other, more understanding each other to be better than
before. I know that sometimes, honest is painful but usually happy ending J
So, for all of
you who start feeling bored to your couple, please don’t cheat first. There are
so many methods that you can do to avoid cheating. You can looking for some
positive things to remove your boredom from your mind. In this world, nothing is perfect
include your relationship, your couple and yourself. there
must be a period of up and down. Your couple also have advantages and
disadvantages. and should the advantages and disadvantages of each of
these, it will be a complement and enhance each other instead of having an
affair if you've left to feel bored. Feel boredom is just a moment , it will run away as long as it’s not to be followed. And remember ! the
third head usually isn’t better than our couple and the relationship that begin
with bad intentions,usually not last long.
